Autor: esurbana

The Spiritual Relationship 2

If it can throw you off your centre, into negative ego emotions, that situation or person is your teacher in that moment for your next step in your spiritual maturity.

A view on the topic by Angela Economakis

Relationships. They don’t last long any more where the lower vibrational proliferation of drama prevails.

The ‘honeymoon period’ of relationships is getting progressively shorter. To put it crudely: your shit comes up way faster than ever before. Have you noticed? So what to do?

Projection, denial of ownership, refusal to take responsibility for the co-creation or allowing of a situation will quickly end in ‘pain-body’ trigger, rampaging inner child/inner adolescent dominance, wounded adult overwhelm and seemingly justified rationale to perpetuate and escalate separation, duality and more drama.

The ‘honeymoon period’ of relationships is getting progressively shorter. To put it crudely: your shit comes up way faster than ever before. Have you noticed? So what to do?

‘The 4 principles of any ‘Spiritual Relationship’ are based on the simple tools we live by and work with in my groups, workshops and sessions. They apply to ANY relationship or encounter, be it intimate, friends, family, work colleagues or random encounters. If it can throw you off your centre, into negative ego emotions, that situation or person is your teacher in that moment for your next step in your spiritual maturity.

May they bring you as much self-awareness, liberation, deeper intimacy, tolerance, self-acceptance and love, as they continually bring me and those who work with them.

1. ‘It’s never about them’

The faster you can move out of blame and drama mode, the better.

– The other person who is triggering you/or who you are in a drama with, is playing a ‘role‘ FOR you.

– The faster you can move out of blame and drama mode, the better.

– Disengage, go inside, follow the triggered emotion to see what role they are playing for your benefit for spiritual growth and inner egoic healing (to clear a pattern up).

– The sooner this is done, the sooner the whole thing will dissolve.

– Leave judgment about it, about you and about the other person out. This just delays everything.

2. ‘It’s never about what it’s about’

Einstein said: ‘You can’t fix a problem with the same mind that created it.’

– E.g. your anger is not about the mess in the kitchen. It’s about what the mess in the kitchen represents underneath

– i.e. maybe it’s representing the joyful freedom your partner experienced during their creative expression whilst cooking. When was the last time you surrendered to your carefree nature in the same way, you may ask yourself?

– Trying to ‘fix’ something that is not the ‘real’ issue is a total waste of time, energy and losing the whole point entirely, as that’s not the problem anyway!

– You’ll also just keep inflating the drama, making the pain worse, and ‘feeding the pain body’.

– Go deep to find the gold. Disengage and go inside.

– Remember – Einstein said: ‘You can’t fix a problem with the same mind that created it.’
So stop the endless stubborn fighting to do so.

3. ‘Nothing changes until you do’

So you can keep playing out the same magnetized drama or you can go within

– You hold one end of a script in this ‘holographic’ explanation of reality.

– Everything you experience on the ‘outside’ is just a projection from the film-role running ‘inside’ – The sum total of your beliefs, patterns, conscious and unconscious drives.

– So you can keep playing out the same magnetized drama or you can go within, look at what ‘end of the script’ you’re holding and playing out (ad nauseam), feel it, own it, heal it, to then experience the very real and often immediate shifts in your outer world or ‘reality’.

4. ‘Pain is resistance’

If you don’t listen to the whispers, you’ll be forced to listen to t he screams

– ‘If it hurts, you’re fighting the process’.

– There is a higher part of you – let’s call it higher self, that is committed to ensuring you get exactly where you set out to get to in this life – call it ‘home’, call it fulfilling your chosen experience or mission in this life. – Our ego believes it knows what’s best for us – we try to control, manipulate and determine our path. The pain is the sign that we’re not listening to the signs to LET GO, allow, trust and surrender to a process that ‘knows’ better.

– Remember:‘if you don’t listen to the whispers, you’ll be forced to listen to t he screams’
……. in ALL domains – from the ’emotional pain body’ to the eventual manifestation of a physical dis-ease process.

The Summary

FEEL IT – to the bottom, to neutralize the electromagnetic charge on the pain body.

TAKE OWNERSHIP – if it exists, you have either created or allowed it in your external reality. No exceptions to that law.

HARNESS IT – there will be a REASON for your own spiritual growth for doing so.

DISENGAGE: from the one/the person, who has triggered this response (it’s never about them and it’s not what it’s about! Remember! And solving it on that level is NOT the solution – Einstein!)

GO INSIDE yourself: Meditate, do some inner inquiry work and take a little journey within and see what it’s really about, what is underneath the story. Then call in some higher dimensional energies – love, light, whatever you like to call it, to help you transmute the ‘density’ you’ve found and accessed.

TRUST: a rebalancing and a recalibration happens and you will begin to experience your reality and your relationships through different lenses entirely.

DON’T JUDGE IT: Judge none of it.. it is what it is.. you’re moving through your spiritual growth as you designed it at the highest level. Let it transform you, but don’t judge ‘the one’ who is learning and growing.

Remember: ‘NO TWO PEOPLE WILL EVER EXPERIENCE THE SAME SCENARIO IN THE SAME WAY’.

– Each will have their experience of it based on their filters, issues and emotional pain body charges.

– You are serving each other in a mutual growth process. Use the opportunity or you can guarantee, it will be repeated again, with another person, and usually louder with more pain in order to get your attention to achieve resolution. Victim consciousness begins to dissolve and crumble, and a liberation and re-empowerment through an emotional and spiritual maturity begins to evolve, unfold and anchor.

With love for your onward journey and Merry/Happy/Holiday Fest!
-*A*-

The way to end judgement

The way to end judgement is to welcome, embrace, and love the part of you that judges… it will not finish it’s judgement job until you lovingly embrace it instead of making judgment wrong and trying to get rid of it.

«The moment that judgment stops through acceptance of what is, you are free of the mind. You have made room for love, for joy, for peace. First you stop judging yourself; then you stop judging your partner. The greatest catalyst for change in a relationship is complete acceptance of your partner as he or she is, without needing to judge or change them in any way. That immediately takes you beyond ego. All mind games and all addictive clinging are then over. There are no victims and no perpetrators anymore, no accuser and accused. This is also the end of all codependency, of being drawn into somebody else’s unconscious pattern and thereby enabling it to continue. You will then either separate – in love – or move ever more deeply into the Now together – into Being.»

Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now

Allow

«If you do your inner work, wherever you are going it will be brighter when you get there» (Lazaris)

Spend some time in your favorite meditative focus and ask for whatever you are ready for. Allow. We like the Go To Glow Meditation as it is really simple and deep, and not requires using the mind:

If you have not done your inner child work… especially establishing a working relationship with your Magical Inner Child [the You you came in as… the front for your Higher Self], this is suggested as a priority to get more out of the approaching shifts. Decades ago one of my teachers (Lazaris) said that “if you do your inner work, wherever you are going it will be brighter when you get there”.

Remember, it has already happened, so the only way to miss a cosmic appointment is to worry you will.

Bless and injoy, keith and barbara

The Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine

Divine Union and Relationships and the role of Cacao…

With the viral «Call to the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine’ that Angela posted on her page, i thought I’d take the opportunity to address this in regard to what we are doing with cacao.

If reality is feedback… If it’s an inside job… If you are now, and always, on the holodeck and the hologram is generated from within… Then the change you want to see in your personal and then global reality with the opposite sex, or anything else, is going to have to happen inside You first. Inviting… or demanding… the mirror to change – while it’s the consensus reality norm – isn’t the way this reality works. «Nothing changes until you do.»
With the light of your being passing through the film of your beliefs and attitudes, thoughts and feelings, and splashing across that screen called reality… if there is something on your screen you’d like to see changed, you might consider taking a look at your film.

My personal purpose in holding these cacao ceremonies is to maintain a space where people learn to change their film by experiencing just that… I was taught this by being helped to do it myself. That, in and of itself, need not have anything to do with cacao. On another level I am also re-introducing one of this planet’s most important facilitator plants, through using and welcoming others to use it as the magical partner it is – having fun assisting others in film and therefore reality changing. Many will become healers and teachers for the next wave of awakening as I am for this one.

~ To view the articles discussed.. take a look at the following links..

A call to the divine feminine
A call to the sacred masculine

If it isn’t love, it is a call for love

If you recognize yourself as being shamed for lack of political activism, consider disengaging… with love

Here, we see lotsa folks who are being shamed for not being more activist, while their inner knowing, which we all have been trained to ignore, and is likely growing stronger, is guiding them quite differently. What to do if it is not obvious that meeting hate with love is, vibrationally, the only answer… is the only thing To Do……??

In the 70’s when i began reading the channeled spiritual literature, there was a theme that the universe, vibrationally, doesn’t understand ‘not’. There are indigenous languages without this word. «Do not litter» tells one’s subconscious to litter… as the negative ‘not’ doesn’t register at that level. Everyone said this. Still do. My teachers, in the 80’s and 90’s, said the best way to have more drugs in a society is to have a war on drugs. Same with terrorism. It works.

The universe registers passion. Whether you are passionately against, or passionately for… doesn’t matter… Either is a vote, a prayer, to feed – energetically – whatever you are passionate about.

The universe registers passion. Whether you are passionately against, or passionately for… doesn’t matter… Either is a vote, a prayer, to feed – energetically – whatever you are passionate about. You will get more of it in your personal life… as well as your outer reality. You set up a negative gridwork, and as per your request, the universe will fill your personal grid in with other things that you will consider negative. Because you asked for it, and prayer works.

These days, higher [channeled or not] beings also recommend not watching the news and not posting or re-posting on social media what you are against. You don’t have to like it. Not preferring something is just fine. The issue is pumping it up with negative energy, because that passion is a vote to strengthen whatever you are getting worked-up about. That’s right, they all say it only makes what you are against stronger. To paraphrase ‘A Course in Miracles’, if it isn’t love, it is a call for love.

Mother Teressa would never attend an anti-war rally. If you had one for peace, she was delighted to be there. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t participate in a protest… it is all about your personal energy.

Those of you getting flack for not being on the front lines against those fuckers… Well, I have compassion for you, as I remember when I was there. [Yup, I got gassed, arrested, and locked-up in 60’s anti-Vietnam demonstrations in Washington, DC.] Wild ride. It was fun. Trust your knowing and go ahead and lose a few friends, and Facebook feeds… those it makes room for will be worth it.

Vote energetically for the world you want… you won’t see a world of love, in your personal or global reality, if you are not there yourself… why wait… we have a world to change.

Vote energetically for the world you want… you won’t see a world of love, in your personal or global reality, if you are not there yourself… why wait… we have a world to change. It is not going to change outside, first. If that makes no sense, give it time, or check-out our parallel realities video.

Trust that we all agreed to stay on the same planet with the fuckers to give them the greatest opportunity to choose love over fear, for themselves… by us being an example of that love. It is a limited time opportunity offer. In the meantime, allow everyone to have their own truth, with love.

If you recognize yourself as being shamed for lack of political activism, consider disengaging… with love. If someone brings your energy down, consider disengaging… with love. That is a standard recommendation of higher beings… as you get what you are a vibrational match for, so stop giving others the power to bring you down… My Mom used to say, “Don’t go away mad, just go away”.

Ascension Symptoms

As we rewrite the programming, density leaves our form in sometimes unpleasant and explosive ways.

Ascension Symptoms – there is lots out there right now about ascension symptoms… the most common term for how folks are handling the shift process. Much of it is channeled. Even for folks who are quite familiar with inner processing or embracing their journey, it can be overwhelming. For those who choose the hard bus [trauma, drama, pain, struggle, and suffering] because they are resisting the process and hanging on to what they know, it is increasingly tending to the nightmare that Eckhard Tolle repeatedly discusses of pain, chaos, violence, and insanity. You will see lots more of this in the next years, even with ones you love, and you are being asked, by you, to move your shit now, so you know how to help them.

Physically these waves of light can really take a toll. As we rewrite the programming, density leaves our form in sometimes unpleasant and explosive ways. Many are experiencing colds, flu like symptoms and intense body aches. Others experience extreme exhaustion, joint pain, back pain, headaches, earaches with lots of ringing in ears, skin eruptions, or gastric upset, with bloating common. Feeling dizzy, nauseous and ungrounded is common, some have a flare up of chronic conditions. Lack of sleep and waking in the middle of the night, or needing to sleep much more than usual. Exhaustion, anxiety and depression, bad dreams are often frequent for many during this clearing.

As a society, we have been conditioned to give our power away to outside authority. Listening to your inner guidance is essential in taking back your power.

There are moments when the body stops digesting and what once satisfied it no longer does. The desire to change one’s diet, or do various fasting protocols will be normal for many. There can also be bizarre food cravings, or binging on anything, even sugar, addictive substances or alcohol, as these energies clear from the system. Some may find themselves “forgetting” to take their usual supplements. This is common during massive upgrades and clearing deep programming. Return to the supplements when you feel guided to. Above all listen to your body and what it needs. Walking this path means that you listen to you and your guidance above all. As a society, we have been conditioned to give our power away to outside authority. Listening to your inner guidance is essential in taking back your power. The best thing you can do is be in allowance of it all with as much grace and gratitude as possible.

Naturally, there will be lots of opportunity to let go of judgment… either of the situation or of yourself for having it…

Trust the process… you are being guided by other levels of your own being. Don’t attach to whatever is coming up as an indication of who you are (most of us do this), simply watch it arise, feel it to the bottom, and then let it go. When we identify with it as who we are, we don’t allow it to leave… and we then manifest a repeat performance to give us another opportunity to receive the gift we manifested to take us to the next level.

Naturally, there will be lots of opportunity to let go of judgment… either of the situation or of yourself for having it… along the way. Please understand that you are, through this process, being led from within to a place where you don’t need reality to change outside first, to believe in your process. You will be able to hold a high vibration… without giving your power away by allowing external circumstances to determine who you are or how you feel. This will happen. Allow it. Welcome home.

Diet change: First, the folks I see being guided into diet change should check out ‘intermittent fasting’ on the net. Basically, carbohydrate metabolism continues for 12 hours after a meal… and then shifts to ketone metabolism that burns fat and puts one into a detox state, especially for waste stored in the fat. So, by skipping either breakfast or dinner, and going for 16-18 hours without eating, one accelerates the clearing. It works. This will likely put you in touch with the emotional reasons you eat… drink some water / herbal tea (without added calories) instead, and go through it.

Second, eat less. I remember an old saying that ¼ of what you eat is for you and the other ¾ is for the doctors. This is really true. About 20 months ago, Barbara and I began radically changing our clean veggie diet to something far different. We now often eat a single main fruit meal, with some superfood powders, a day… plus a cup of cacao, sure. Along the way we went through massive energy drops and much more. It wasn’t easy. Having cleared out much of our food beliefs [your beliefs about a food have far more effect on your body than the food itself], we can now go out for dinner and share a pizza, love it, and have no negative effects whatsoever. Yummy! Our bodies love it all. Note: others will be guided to green leafy organics instead of the fruit. Remember not to neglect fats / oils and minerals (perhaps seaweed but not Pacific Ocean). It is mango season here in Guatemala, we are in heaven… apples are next.

Third, check out the detox protocol that Bashar recommends, where you take 3 grams of Vitamin C and 3 grams of MSM 3 times a day. If you continue to over-eat a toxic diet during this, the clearing will go to your eating and not to what is stored in your body… says Bashar (everyone’s favorite channeled ET).

If you attempt dietetic change because you should… you will likely fail. Let it happen in its own natural way, whenever it does. Eat less if you want to accelerate your issues coming up.

I know an international traveler on a primo vegan diet. But she eats so much for emotional reasons that she stinks from a toxic digestion… enough so that her partner is turned off. She is listening to her theories about eating… and not her body.

As best you can, allow whatever chaos flows through you… it isn’t really yours anyway…

As best you can, allow whatever chaos flows through you… it isn’t really yours anyway… you put it inside so you wouldn’t be able to forget what you came here to transmute for the planet. Have fun. Blessings from keith and barbara… and the Lake!